is this how massage should feel?
While receiving a massage in Rosarito, Mexico, the masseuse explored some areas I wasn't expecting for my massage--therapeutic suddenly turned very awkward.. In retrospect, I should've been much more assertive for my feelings/boundaries...but at the time, I wasn't sure if this was a customary mexican massage tradition. Anyway---the nurturing healing of a massage treatment didn't happen at all, I felt molested.
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Massage is very different in Mexico. There aren't any regulations or training. If you are talking about having your underwear pulled up and your gluts massaged it is common there. It isn't personal - just a cultural thing.